物归原主

   看的人需要耐心...
   转眼间就是50年,不觉得有什么感人的片段，来来去去串联起来的人物关系也有些牵强，总觉得看完之后就让人觉得那样的人生很浪费，还有女主人公的自私，自以为是的爱情，没什么可歌颂的～～
　　不懂得爱人，也不值得被爱．

本来今天去电影院的原始目的是去看宫崎骏的新作《崖上的ポニョ》的。然而到达电影院的时候不早不晚，为了省时间，就随便选了这部最早开演的片子——进去的时候甚至连片名是什么都没看清楚。

情节可简单概括如下：
三个男人爱上了一个女人。第一个男人和她结婚了，他死了。第二个男人和她结婚了，然后也死了。第三个男人终于和她获得了幸福！

同事问：那么戒指呢？
戒指，只是一条线索罢了……

刚开始的时候很混乱。镜头在现在与60年前的美国及爱尔兰来回切换，大量的出场人物很快就搞得我晕头转向。而因为这些复杂的关系，最后的部分感觉有些冗长拖蹋——否则怎么交代得清楚。导演虽然用抽丝剥茧法将谜题一个一个地逐步解开了，不过还是看得我有些不耐烦起来。特别是连IRA都扯进去了，历史感有是有了，阴谋论却和主线关系不够深。

爱情的承诺，忠贞的爱情，纯真的友情。
老套吗？ 早已泪流满面。
可爱的小伙子，大开了一位老人的心结。
多么美妙美好的情感，一切情感。

整部戏都在讲承诺吧
爱人间的承诺，兄弟间的承诺，陌生人间的承诺
承诺毁了很多东西，但是如那位爱尔兰妇女说，做出承诺还是有意义的，至少让一个人有负担地生活下去，精神上有所寄托，即使实现不了
片子最后，女主人公知道了那段最后的话，整个人放开了，一切变得很轻松，因为不需要再遵守什么承诺了，什么都放下了。

影片在glory glory 哈里路亚～～的歌声里开始

一
peter:"I'm really sorry"
ethel:"no need to,it's his time to go"
peter:"no,I mean about being late...."

二
ethel:"this house"
mary:"it's a kind of strange,coming back to the house he built wihtout him in it"
ethel:"hamm"
 
三
ehtel:"but you must never ever let a man build you a house,as long as you stay there,you just live with him"

四
chuck:"so how do you say three "I"s in spanish?"
...
chuck:"I ya ya"

五
queenland:"last time someone used this switch is 50 years ago"
...
bombing...

六
ethel:"I will always love you teddy,I will be yours till dead I swear,there will be a room for you in my heart no one else not ever untill I'm leaving my grave"

七
ethel:"I was 21 years old my life was over,you don't know what greeving is"

八
jack:"too much,not though enough"

九
teddy:"I know that chuck, but if something happens to me, you've got to promise you take care of ethel,promise me."

十
jimmy:"sorry america long distance"
woman:"you could have walked to her in that time"

十一
jack:"you keep smiling whatever you hear you keep smiling"

十二
ethel:"I had our names put inside of it, you will merry me with it, and then you're going to take it with you, so you can remember me wherever you go"

十三
mary:"he loved you, inspite all of these, he loved you,but you never did,did you? in all his life he knew you locked your love behind this god dammed wall"
ethel；“there was no proof,and that was all he left to me."
mary:"I don't care about him,you bitch,you shut daddy out,and then you shut me out,all my life,all you have done is to shut us out"

十四
jack:"I was lying of course,I loved ethel so much that it hurts just thinking about her. so did chuck,three guys wanted her and two of them got her and non of them was me."

十五
mary:"I love you chuck,I never heard her say those words, not once."
jack:"no,they had good times together,they made good couple."
mary:"they did nver spoke,they both knew what was behind that wall and they didn't say a damm thing to eachother in 50 years,neither did you"
jack:"oh we didn't need to"
mary:"everybody needs to talk"
jack:"no honey,everybody needs to cry.but your mother never did,not once,you have to forgive her for that"
mary:"you ever wished you pushed in and merried mum?"
jack:"oh no, don't ask me that please...I was dead, we all got killed in mind,all of us,and teddy didn't choose me,he could cure and it was my turn to die,I deserved it,I deserved it..."

十六
jack:"she's gone,she's gone,to belfast to look for bits of memory..."
mary:"jack,dad never told her,did he, that teddy make him promise to merry her"
jack:"no"
mary:"why not? it looks she had teddy's permission"
peter:"why didn't you say something"
jack:"because it was not her godammed business!!!"
peter:"you're a coward,dad, and you're a lier,you lied to chuck and teddy, and the worst of all, you lied to yourself"

十七
jimmy:"have you ever been in love mr'quinlan?"
quinlan:"no life is hard enough"
jimmy:"so is it possible to love more than once?"
elinna:"and when I had..."
quilan:"that's for sure..."
jimmy:"but if you promise to love one person and no one else for ever and ever"
quilan:"not make promises like that"
elinna:"aof course you can, but can't keep,but it worths making though"

影片在ethel山顶上对着天上的鹰的哭声中结束

    从小到大，对承诺一直看得很重，所以不会轻易承诺，清楚地知道，一旦承诺必须付诸行动，但这不等于不承诺，有把握做到的才会去承诺，所以一个很会许诺的的人是不可能去交往的。现在社会，不知道有多少人还相信爱情，还会有多少人因为爱情承诺并信守自己的诺言，承诺有时看似一种累赘，但信守的过程应该是充实的，好比一个有了信仰的人。